The importance of family education Family education on the issue since ancient times by people's concern， but as a subject to study in China in recent years is also the This is the development of the times， the demand， the National necessary to improve the overall quality of the issues Here with the parents of the importance of family education， the aim is to the family and society， the education sector to shoulder the common task of educating the next The education is a system of education works here include a family education， social education， collective (Tuoyouyuansuo， school) education， the three interrelated and organic combination of mutual influence， interaction and mutual constraints The education project from which one can， but in this project， family education is the foundation of all The former Soviet Union educators famous Su Huomu Belinsky transferred to a child than marble， he said， to shape this into a marble statue of need six sculptor: 1 family， 2 schools， 3 children of the collective; 4 child; books; 6 occasional From the order， the family was included in the first place， can see the family in shaping children in the course of a very important role in the hearts of the educators occupy a For this reason parents understand the importance of family education is very First， family education is the starting point for education and basic point Family education generally refers to the family of parents and adult children of minors education Their educational objectives should be: the child into the community to accept collective education (kindergarten， school education) prior to guarantee the physical and mental health development of children， to accept the kindergartens， schools of education to lay a solid The child for admission into the school， with kindergartens， schools to moral， intellectual， physical， the United States， the various aspects of comprehensive Education is the focus of moral education mainly among children good moral quality and develop good habits mainly habits include: living habits， labor practices， learning habits， the church children how to learn "" As a result of family education in the family， and kindergartens， schools of education， social education， compared with the following characteristics of these features so that family education to become the starting point for education and basic point is by no other educational (A) family of early education The family is the cradle of life of children， who are receiving education after the birth of a venue that is the first class life; parents are children's first teachers， that is， the Enlightenment Therefore， parents of children by the application of early education the Generally speaking， after the birth of a child after three years of development， access to early childhood， from the 3-year-old…… 6-year-old is preschool， which is said in the early stages of education， this is the physical and mental development of an important China's Gu Yan: "Cang， with the Cang， with the yellow， " Childhood is gradually nurture life with the beginning of many basic human capacity is a stage of this age， such as language， and some basic moves Living habits， and so on， the character is gradually taking US psychologists Bloom， a person's intellectual development if his 17-year-old regarded as the level reached 100 percent， then 4 years old when it reached 50 4-8 years old and a 30% increase ，8-17-year-old also won 20 This shows that children in the 5-year-old former intelligence is the fastest growing period， the early intellectual development is the best， if parents in this period by the implementation of good family education， early child will be the key to intellectual Since ancient times， many people with lofty ideals， celebrities in the early years of fruitful period by a good family education is their future become an important For example， the German poet， playwright Goethe's become， effective early education in the Goethe 2-3 years old， his father hold on to the outskirts of the field visit to observe nature， culture Goethe's observation 3-4 years old， his father taught him to sing， the songs back， said a fairy tale， and we intend to let him in the face of public lectures， training his speaking These are awareness education so that young Goethe optimistic， progressive， happy to think， be good at Goethe-8-year-old can use， Germany， Britain， Italy， Latin， Greek reading books， 14-year-old wrote the script， the 25-year-old with a month's time wrote a famous poem in Europe， "The Sorrows of Young Werther " Another example of ancient "and his son calligrapher，" Wang Xizhi's known for， Wang Xianzhi， there have been a number of 1350 Edison invented the great inventors， the generation of literary star Guo Moruo， Mao Dun and other celebrities of the growth process that the family education in the early intellectual development is very important Instead， the period of childhood are not good family education and intellectual impact on the normal development of many of the examples Such as India， "Langhai" Ka Mala， who was Diao to the wolf， when 8-year-old was found， but their living habits with the same people， their living habits and almost like a wolf， limbs， crawling， eating raw meat， day V Night， Later， a man-made training， two years before standing， after six years can be like walking Xiangren， four years learned to six words， in his 17-year-old， the intellectual level reached only 3-year-old child's According to "China Women" revealed that China's Nanjing City Xingma one of the workers suffering from mental and psychological diseases， Shenpa children persecuted by the people， will own three children from small lock at home， people so that they contacts with the outside world， has a long Up to 10 years， resulting in the children mental retardation， speech delay， compared with their peers， intellectual capacity and very different life， near idiots， so the family can not be neglected the role of early education， (B) family education continuity of family education second characteristic is the After the birth of a child， from small to large， almost 2 / 3 of time living in the family， Zhaochaomumu， all the parents in the Such education is the intentional and unintentional， planned and unplanned， consciously and unconsciously， are carried out， no matter what， in what time education， parents are in their own words and deeds at any time affect their children's education Such education of children living habits， moral conduct and behaviour and so on in the style of conversation kept to influence and demonstrations， the subtle influence of the considerable role， accompanied by a person's life can be said to live to old to learn the old， some Parent educator again called for life This life of the education often reflects a family's Family Style， Family Style is good or bad often have to continue for several generations， or even a dozen， dozens generation， and this Family Style often with family members engaged in the employment-related Such as: Xinglin family "，" Pear Orchard House， "" family education "， At the same time Family Style also reflects a family's style of study， study， good or bad is often the continuation of many generations， a dozen people， several dozens of generations As in modern China， Wuxi people Yan Gong added-not "countries selected in the Museum"， statistics from 2003-Shunzhi Branch to Guangxu 30 years Bing Xu Jia Chen Branch， the champion of 114 people， including his son by the first brothers Shuzhileishi Absolutely not， such as Suzhou Miao， Wu and Pan Sanxing， Changshu Weng， both surnamed Jiang， Chen Haining， Zhejiang， check the two See， family education is often the continuity of personnel groups have an important impact on the This S Ancient and modern times quite prominent in the contemporary with the development of science， and social needs of the unemployed increased， the broad people's careers， a family member can not have all engaged in the same work， but many see this situation That some family members work frequently appears in the results， be commended， but some family members one after another This is a continuous education and family have great (C) family education authority Family Education is the authority of parents in their children on their elders reflected by the power and The existence of the family， parents and children identified the blood relationship， upbringing， emotional， moral and ethical children in the living needs of the elderly parents have great dependence， family members and the fundamental interests of consistency， have decided The father of each of their children a greater role in the Parent education was easier to accept and submit to the children， parents and reasonable use of this feature， the children good moral character and habits formed the usefulness， for child care， in particular， is the Child care and other children in playing the game， when disputes arise when parents are often invoked to confirm their own speech act is right， if they like to say: "My father is saying " Or "My mother is So "And so Children of parents in the eyes of the authority decided to accept the child how to treat the nursery schools and community The relationship between children and parents， the child is the first to face an important social In this relationship， almost embodies the moral social ethics in all aspects， if such a relationship in the formation of cracks and defects， the children then to the community， in a variety of relationships will be Therefore stressed the importance of parental authority， but also because the children of parents in childhood has always played a dual role: the safety of children is not only the survival of protected persons， but also a life of the Wizard of E The effects of parental education， depends on the extent to establish the authority of parents， foster parents must be authoritative Built on respect for children on the basis of personality， rather than the feudal patriarchal system， parents are wise to understand the importance of establishing authority， but also know how to establish the authority does not rely on repression and force， subjective assumptions， but the method used G Both parents in the education of their children's attitude on the first concerted and coordinate with each other， should be wide， wide， it should be strict martial law， in front of their children establish a kind of dignity and image， so that parents accept their children's (D) of the infected family education Parents with children between the blood relationship and kinship between the natural and close， making the parents of the children have strong feelings on the role of Children on the demeanour of the parents can often Xinlingshenkuai to intelligence- In dealing with in and around the side of the relationship between matter and the issue of children on the attitude of parents is very easy to In the happy parents， the children will take part in joy， the parents showed irritability and Menmenbuyue， the child's emotions can easily be affected， even young children as If the parents lack of rational and emotional， hot temper， will enable blind children to absorb its Some parents in dealing with unexpected incidents， show panic anxiety， surprise， the impact on children is not good if the frightened parents the same， steady firm and children in distress will also calm the situation calmly， so the quality of child psychology training Play a positive (5) timeliness of family education Family education process， parents are parents of children in the family of the individual acts of education than kindergarten， school education should As the saying goes:知子莫若父， that women Morrow Overnight between parents and children， their situation can be said to be well known to the children was slightly changed， even a look， a smile can make parents Xinlingshenhui， so as parents through their children's every move， his every word and deed can make the best of At this very moment of their psychological state， found the child on the existing problems， timely education， timely corrective， not the problem overnight， so that bad habits in the embryonic stage of the And kindergartens， schools， teachers faced with dozens of children， only for the children of this age stage for general education， that is， education groups， because of time and energy constraints， it is impossible to take care of each child's characteristics， Prone to the phenomenon of loss， or even to take care of the children of teachers and the poor do not have a sense of trust， and parents could guide their children promptly correct So parents of children to the correct family education so that children can enter kindergarten before forming a good habit， to accept collective education has laid a good foundation， can make up for the lack of mass Second， a good family education is the 21st century created the necessary conditions for personnel "China's 1990s development program for children" in the specified: "Today's children are the masters of the 21st century， child protection and the bottom-up development is to improve the quality of the population base， which is a prerequisite for The healthy growth of children Related to the future and destiny of the Improve the quality of the entire nation， from the start with "And:" In 2000 to make 90 percent of children (under the age of 14) of the parents to varying degrees， master conservation， education of children of "This Top targeted the parents shoulders for the state created the heavy responsibility of the 21st century Can this generation of children training to become Dezhitimei the all-round development of people， this country is Houjiyouren relationship to the B Fu-Lu Bell also said: "The country's fate is not so much lies in the hands of those in power， we might as well have said to be in the hands of his " This sentence is very philosophical， it profoundly understand the parents pick in the education of their children in The role played Parents should first clear direction of education and national interests， the people's request in line with the principle， the child can not be regarded as private property， it is necessary to establish the idea of the country， correct educational China's 21st century is what the situation， with the words of Comrade Deng Xiaoping， to make our country in the middle of the 21st century to achieve the level of moderately developed countries， per capita income reached 4，000 US dollars， in gross national product amounted to 6 trillion US The 21st century should be a good ideologies and noble moral character， and improve the psychological quality， positive spirit of cooperation with others， strong adaptability， Chikunailao the comprehensive development of the new If the 21st century do not have such a group of high-quality builders is very difficult to complete this great， with such a quality is not overnight can do， and a good family education training is a prerequisite for high-quality Third， a good family education is a catalyst to optimize the children hearts Children from infancy into childhood， with age， from the family environment will eventually enter the small community， contact with the crowd outside the home， Lee Jia Choue those in society from time to time to enter the child's perspective， adults take isolation tactics will not work， because in the family video from different angles will continue to reflect the reality in today's society， issues both positive and negative have T Children， especially young children lack a rational ability to distinguish right from wrong， but sensitive than adults have the feeling of They occurred around the kind of terrible things， sensitive， and this sensitivity training is the ability to rationally distinguish between a good basis， as parents should take advantage of this extension， help the children feel in this capacity on the basis of ， The development of the social life of the ability to identify and psychological capacity， social filter information， optimize the hearts of young If parents in their daily life can be for young children is not strong capacity to accept the characteristics specific to seize the day-to-day chores， help children understand the community in identifying the Shishifeifei， specifically so that they feel Lee's bright side， Experience to the ugly despicable， can help children enhance the Yangshan Chuxie sense of justice， thus resist the dark side of the ugly soul of the child For example， today's video into the urban residents in almost every family， the children almost every day to deal with them， it can be said is not out of their homes， Bianzhi the Which can be received from all over the world all kinds of There are political situation， scientific and technological progress， ordinary people of Sushi， from which you can learn a lot of knowledge and understanding of major domestic and international events， both within and outside small It is inevitable that some homicide violence， obscene absurdity of the lens Yingru child's Parents should address these issues timely guidance， to improve their children's ability to identify， we need to keep their own perceptions of behaviour， for their children establish a positive image， optimizing the hearts of children， the prevention of child make mistakes， and even violations of law and Family to work in this area， help small and stability of the The family is society's cells， with healthy cells， can we have a sound body， the sick cells， the body will cause As an ancient saying goes: "body repair and then home-and-then-State governance， rule of the then-world"， "Qijia， the country， the world-the" point of view is that this For this reason parents do a good job in optimizing the work of children's mental stability and social， stability and national power in In short， as parents to the importance of family education fully and conscientiously do a good job in their children's education， make good parents responsibilities and obligations for the country to train qualified personnel in the
