There have seed emotion to call "like"， the second is called "love" Love is when he is in in eyes， he is the only one; When he is not in all with his Love is in the middle of the night when reading a book about him suddenly， imagine him what to do now， in the heart of the warm light up a bulky， but never actively give him a A few minutes later， the attention again to plot of the book to attract!!!!! Love is in the lonely night， miss flooded to holding the book in his hand， but how also can't go in， you heart at this time whether he still in overtime， and eat dinner， is not as we think of his general thinking about Like is to discuss with him the blush up to the ears， for before him at his rival like a hedgehog never give up， but as in the heart had secretly admire his opinions of his Love is the hope that he and his whip， and his soul dwelling， he inadvertently say a teaser also can let himself down even for In front of him， he is never Like is out to his hair message， tell him the weather here is very good， and then the phone off， alone in different ground crazy for a week， sun into a black suddenly appeared in front of him after startled Love is whether to which all hope to have his Can be standing on the beach to give him a mobile phone， let him to hear the sound of the waves; Can also because of the foreign street see a strongly resembles his figure and leng in situ billowing Like he is before the trip simple way with a "bon voyage"， looking at his leave of figure， in the heart a little shed， but say nothing， just silently waiting for him to return Love is in his QianDingNing before the trip into his backpack， charged with clothes and food， at the station to wait until the train left before they would And after he left in the day of every day in limbo， over and pray that he can come back Like is in hurt， don't want to let him see his weak side， before him quietly wipe the tears， turned his head still is a happy strong Love is in be wronged， on his chest and wept bitterly， no disguise no worries， put all the troubles completely， and the desire to tell him from his arms get Like is and his weekend shops tired eat together KFC; Is in the cold winter and he grabbed a hot cup of coffee; And he is always walk on the street shoulder among the distance between the half a metre; With him together in front of the computer game play two smile like a Love is weekend use half a day to make a few with sir meet of see him to eat it， Is in the cold winter for his coffee cup constantly refilled hot water; And he walked in the street is letting him walking arm in arm with his own hand tightly; Is next to him in the quiet， happy to look at him in front of the computer work to Like is to hear him tell his childhood the fun， and then laughed， in the heart of the fellowship of the vague Love is to listen to his childhood the fun， then smiled， heart more pity at present this once so terribly naughty Love is in the building， pleasant and met him he say hello， again simple greetings several， pass by when she saw a beautiful sunshine outside the window， the mood gratuitous and Love is in the building and see him， face pretends to did not care about the expression， but passed careful around feeling in the attack of air， and could not help looking back to one Like is to see him and another girl hand through inside， there is a little bit of pain， but will soon at chaoyang to raise smiling Love is a loser's game， after paying all， stay may be only on the bottom of a Like a person is want him was his own， so， can be like a lot of people， want to a lot of people is their Love is clearly without him， but will have to give up him， because he will happiness， maybe I can not Can't take him， would like to see him find happiness， even of that happiness is not share with Like that are expected to feel lonely， bored， sad， to find someone to talk Love is， at any time to share with him， happy even hopes to put all his Love is a long， long time， didn't contact， received his phone， and then smile to hear him Love is in a few days， had no contact， try so hard to call him， then held my tears and smile a Like， only together of the time， just thinking about each Love is， even if it is together， each second is thinking about Like a person， most many friends， will also feel Love a person， is more a person， can enjoy two people of the Like a person， is sweet Love a person， is the Like a person， together of the time will be very Love a person， not together， will sense of Like a person， you won't think of your Love a person， you often together hope for Like a person， together of the time is always a Love a person， you will often Like a person， when you long time no see， you will suddenly think of Love a person， when you long time no see， you will think about him every Like a person， when you think of him， and you will be a slight Love a person， when you think of him， and you will be the Like a person， you will want to have children， he you will love Love a person， will one day， you suddenly very curious: the future of our children can be any Like a person is hope everybody Love a person hope that he will be more Like a person， you only need Love a person， you expect is Like a person， is to see the Love a person， is inclusive of his When you stand in front of the person you love， your heart beats But when you stood in front of the person you like， you just feel When you and the person you love， you four eyes delivers will But when you and four eyes of the person you like， you can only smile When you and the person you love， you feel is reluctant to But when you and of the person you like， you can speak Dialogue When the one you love is crying， you cry with But when the one you like is crying， you will skills to comfort When you don't want to love a person， you want to close your eyes and endure When you don't
JANE EYRE > is the 19th century British Writer Criticizing realism Scialotti Bronte representative of It has succeeded in shaping the shape of the British literature in the first to love， life， social and religious have taken an independent and active attitude and dare to fight and daring to fight for free and equal status of This major conform to simplicity love character and dignity of the value = love for
The Positive Meanings of Love We'd like to share some of the positive meanings love has for Love means that I know the person I I'm aware of the many sides of the other person — not just the beautiful side but also the limitations， inconsistencies and I have an awareness of the other's feelings and thoughts， and I experience something of the core of that I can penetrate social masks and roles and see the other person on a deeper Love means that I care about the welfare of the person I To the extent that it is genuine， my caring is not possessive， nor does it hold the other person On the contrary， my caring frees both of If I care about you， I'm concerned about your growth， and I hope you will become all that you can Consequently， I don't put up obstacles to what you do that enhances you as a person， even though it may result in my discomfort at Love means having respect for the dignity of the person I If I love you， I can see you as a separate person， with your own values and thoughts and feelings， and I do not insist that you surrender your identity to match an image of what I expect you to be for I can allow and encourage you to stand alone and to be who you are， and I avoid treating you as an object or using you primarily to satisfy my own Love means having a responsibility toward the person I If I love you， I respond to most of your major needs as a This responsibility does not include my doing for you what you are capable of doing for yourself; nor does it mean that I run your life for It does mean acknowledging that what I am and what I do affects you， so that I am directly involved in your happiness and your A lover does have the capacity to hurt or ignore the loved one， and in this sense we see that love involves an acceptance of some responsibility for the impact my way of being has on Love means making a commitment to the person I This commitment does not mean surrendering our total selves to each other; nor does it imply that the relationship is necessarily It does involve a willingness to stay with each other in times of pain， struggle， and despair， as well as in times of calm and Love means trusting the person I If I love you， I trust that you will accept my caring and my love and that you won't deliberately hurt I trust that you will find me attractive， and that you won't abandon me; I trust the mutual nature of our If we trust each other， we are willing to be open to each other and reveal our true Love can tolerate In a love relationship there are times when I am bored， times when I may feel like giving up， times of real strain， and times I feel I can't move Authentic love does not imply enduring I can stay during rough times， however， because I can remember what we had together in the past， and I can picture what we will have together in our future if we care enough to face our problems and work them We agree with the idea that love is a spirit that changes Love is a way of life that is creative and that However， love is not reserved for a perfect Love is meant for our imperfect world where things go Love is meant to be a spirit that works in painful Love is meant to bring meaning into life where nonsense appears to In other words， love comes into an imperfect world to make it possible to Love is If I love you， I encourage you to reach out and develop other Although our love for each other and our commitment to each other might prohibit certain actions on our parts， we are not totally and exclusively married to each It is a false love that cements one person to another in such a way that he or she is not given room to Love is I can only love you if I genuinely love， value， appreciate， and respect If I am empty， then all I can give you is my If I feel that I'm complete and worthwhile in myself， then I'm able to give to you out of my One of the best ways for me to give you love is by fully enjoying myself with Love involves seeing the potential within the person we In my love for another， I view her or him as the person she or he can become， while still accepting who and what the person is By taking people as they are， we make them worse， but by treating them as if they already were what they ought to be， we help make them To sum it up， mature love is union under the condition of preserving one's In love， two beings become one and yet remain 爱的真谛我们想把我们对爱情的一些积极看法跟大家分享。爱就意味着了解所爱的人。能够认识到这个人多个方面——不仅仅是美好的一面，还有他的局限，他的矛盾之处和他的缺点。要看到对方的情感、思想，感觉他的内心，要能够透过他在社交场合的表现和他的社会角色而看到他内心的深处。爱就意味着关心所爱之人的幸福。事实上，爱不是占有，也不是束缚。相反，两人都在爱中得到自由。关心一个人就是关心他的成长，希望他可以成为最好的他。因此，我不会为他的个人发展设置障碍，即使这样有时使我难受。爱就意味着尊重所爱之人。爱一个人，就是将其卸任一个独立的人，有自己的价值观、思想和感情。我不会为自己而坚持要他放弃个性变成我所希望的他。我能允许，也鼓励他我行我素，成为他自己。我不会视他为物，或利用他主要来满足自己的需要。爱就意味着对所爱之人负责。爱一个人，就要对他作为独立个体的需求做出回应。这种负责并不包括替他做他可以自己做到的事，也不是操纵他的生活。这种负责是承认我的所作所为会影响到他，他的欢乐痛苦都与我直接相关。相爱者确有伤害或忽略所爱的人的能力。从这个意义上说，我们认为，爱就要为自己的行为对对方产生的影响承担某种责任。爱就意味着对所爱之人做出承诺。这种承诺并非意味着把自己完全交给对方，也并不是说这一关系必然是天长地久，这种承诺否认在平静愉快时，还是困苦挣扎、失意绝望时，都愿意厮守相伴。爱就意味着信赖所爱之人。爱一个人，就要相信他会接受我的关心，接受我的爱，相信他不会故意伤害我；相信他会认为平静愉快有吸引力，相信他不会抛弃我；相信爱是相互的。如果我们彼此信赖，我们就愿彼此坦诚相待，敞开心扉。爱能够容忍不完美。爱人之间也会有时感到厌倦，有时想放弃，有时感到压力，有时感到无法前进。真正的爱并不意味着永远的幸福。但是，在困难时期我能坚守，因为我仍记得我们共同度过的日子，我也能想象如果我们愿意面对我们之间的问题、渡过难关、我们将共同拥有什么样的未来。我们一致认为爱是一种能改变人生的精神。爱是一种生活方式，它具有创造和改变的力量。但是爱并不是为完善世界而存在的，爱本来就是我们这个不完美、有缺陷的世界而存在的。爱应该是一种能缓解痛苦的精神力量。爱应该给我们这无聊的生活带来意义。换言之，是爱使我们能够在这不完美的世界上生活下去。爱是包容的。爱一个人，就要鼓励他与他人建立联系。尽管对彼此的爱与承诺不允许我们有某些行为，这种结合也不是全然排他的。两个人密不可分，再无个人发展的余地，这样的爱是不真实、不明智的。爱又是自私的。只有真正自爱自重、自赏自尊，才能接受别人。如果自己空虚，那么我能给所爱之人的也只是空虚。如果认为自己是充实的、出色的，那么我就能以自己的充实为所爱之人增光，给对方以爱的最好方法之一就是与所爱之人一起充分体验自己。爱就要看到所爱之人身上的内在潜力。爱一个人，在接受今日的他的同时，还要了看作明天他会成为的人。视人静止不变，则令其退步，而视其进步发展、如同他的潜力已经发挥，则助其进步。总而言之，成熟的爱就是在保持个体独立条件下的双方结合。在爱情中，两个人变成了一个人同时还保持着两个独立的个体。
