Divorce， another injury to a childIn recent years， China's divorce rate was gradually rising trend， accounting for about marriage a few of 10% Children of divorced parents on psychosomatic health can not be ignored negative A related study shows that: 54% of divorced families of the children in emotional and emotional problems， manifested as depression little Huan， easily angered， and the tense relations between the same age children， and even heap， psychological and behavioral How to help children adapt to life after the divorce of their parents， will not affect the healthy development of their personality， psychologists recommended: Grasping her own feelings: divorce， the vast majority of couples are not a happy Abandoning the child as "punching bag" and venting their emotions， divorce is not the child's We should continue to give their children a warm and caring can help children grow To live together with their children: some divorced couples to take their children to the custody of their elders or other relatives， their only map where he considers This will have the children feel abandoned by their parents， have inferiority and resentment， pessimistic turn hostile His father or mother after the divorce party should assume the obligation to bring up children， create a harmonious family home Not that spouses坏话: Most of the children after their parents divorce， hope that they can reunion between， and is willing to maintain good relations with However， if the dependent child's party vandalism parent-child relationship， often in front of the children said that the former spouse坏话， not conducive to the cultivation of mental health， this will affect their future happiness of love and Communicate with your child: before and after the couple divorced in， we should talk more communication with their children， why should tell his parents divorce， the marriage to have a correct understanding of the objective， and not simply as which side is If the lack of communication， some children of divorced parents will be attributed to them， there can not悦纳themselves， the loss of self-confidence， and other psychological crisis， vulnerable emerging extreme Do not deprive parents love: not by blood between husband and wife， although the divorce， but parents and children of the parent-child relationship will never Some people， after divorce， child custody prohibit their former spouses and relatives between the exchanges， forcing kids do not recognize this gate relatives， to express their grievances， all of which are After the divorce both parents should not be lightly denied the integrity of the children's love， perfect for the child's personality can be more The child is innocent， the divorced parents should love to give them a little care， do not let children have been hurt by Even when one of remarriage， should also regularly visit the children， sharing family 有两处中文自己解决下吧。
