With the increasing development of social psychology research topics are also increasingly enrich and The promotion of research, from early social development to social inerting; from the obedience of the research, the development of anti-obedience and independence; from violations of the research, development to the study of altruism; to attract research, development to love ; from the study of interpersonal perception, development attributed to the Shows the perspective of social psychology research is increasingly broad and in- Helpless and then self-control to deepen our understanding of the social psychology of self-awareness self-concept in social psychology through the systematic introduction of self-concept and self-efficacy as well as acquisition understanding and knowledge of people and things in the community and understand their own "I" word Key words :) self-concept self-efficacy and self-control learned helplessness