Confidence is a successEducation is a famous say: let every child to raise head to "Head" means to oneself， to the future， and to things to do with Any one person， when he heads held high， striding forward， in his heart， there are many of his works， "I can do"， "I can achieve the goal"， "I'll do well"， "small setback for me nothing" If every student， have this attitude， can progress， become the good student all-round However， in fact， there are quite a number of children lack of confidence， lack of progress of courage， originally can have very motivation， also only six points or In the long run， it is difficult to cheer up， become a pall of Not only will delay progress， and may even pessimism， behave even more badly， it is very Why will appear this kind of phenomenon? This is the external and internal interaction From the external said， may be influenced by the negative evaluation too much， without the chance of success， poor situation， From the internal said， may be damaged， self-esteem， self-confidence， lack of self-control and For example， a child in the class is not in the collective， no expression ability， teachers， parents， or in front of criticism， accused by too much， even irony， sarcasm， or by some setbacks (as) after the test scores of guidance and help will hurt the child's self-esteem， self- Then， the poor performance， and can cause new disdain， a vicious Anyone who respect and pride， children are no While some respects， self-esteem， self-confidence， is the first psychological So how to cultivate children's self-confidence family?We must first respect children's Respect personality is regardless of time， place， regardless of is more advantages than shortcomings If a parent in children have grade respect him， when problems arise not respect him， arbitrary， it has done Parents might think method with psychological transposition， oneself have shortcomings and errors， hope others how to treat Children are eager to be respected， first by parents and teachers with Respect your child， cannot to degrading， wound self- "For you"， "you hopeless，" "your brain is pig brains"， "I was disappointed in you completely，" "your this virtue， you shouldn't"， "you are my face lost" These words from the parents should be in the Secondly， often encourage children to help The success of any small， can enhance the person's A child， when he wrote a word， to do a problem， a red flag， wash a pair of socks， make a dish， a button， wipe a floor， he had the joy of achievement， can expect to do better next As a parent， child， let him to help a bit of successful experience， and not how difficult This is both honeset In a little success in a Teach children learn more positive To do the children lack confidence， especially those of children， inferiority in tiny progress， affirm them out of their education， also in their faces difficulties and setbacks， positive self hint: "I can do"， "I'll effort will do"， "I will not be intimidated difficulty"In addition， cultivate children's self-confidence and teacher， make to children at the school also get the chance of success， encouragement and not Second， the importance of cultivating non-intellectual factors of childrenIn real life， some students in school， had considered superior intelligence， but nothing after The fact proves， high intelligence can become not hidden in fact， the truth behind the talented person is: except for certain mental factors and social conditions outside， still depends on a number of non-intelligent Generally thought that intelligence factors including six aspects: attention， memory， imagination， observation， SiWeiLi， Non-intelligent factors， and no direct relationship to the emotion， will， interest， personality， need， motivation， objectives and ambitions， beliefs， outlook， These non-intelligence factor in the growth process， the talented person having the effect that cannot A high level of intelligence， if he's non-intellective factor not well developed， often without much Instead， one of the average intelligence， if he's got a good development non-intelligent factors， can obtain success， make greater Psychologically speaking， emotion， will， interest， character， needs and goals， ambition， and intellectual development outlook， etc， are the internal Through the internal A man of non-intelligent factors have good development not only helps the full development of intelligence， but also other aspects for the Conversely， if people lack will ease， and influence the development of Third， from children to logical thinking ability of developmentLogical thinking ability is the key factor of A person's mind level， mainly through logical thinking Family should have a correct understanding and education in the child process consciously measures， let children become Thinking is usually say， "thinking"， "think"， "think"， is one of the brain's ability to process the objective SiWeiLi， is a person of thinking Thinking level， reflect a person's intelligence activity It is shown from the different aspects:Independence: SiWeiLi strong person， must be adept at independent In the study， meet difficulties in life can be independent thinking， looking for Even if he ask others to access information， also is the premise of independent Flexibility and agility: SiWeiLi strong man， quick and flexible to always melon， hidebound， can compare quickly， solve the Logic: strong， want to SiWeiLi closely and scientific problems， not forced analogy， don't fragmented， conclusions have sufficient reason， clear evidence that Comprehensiveness: SiWeiLi strong， see a problem， can not one-sided view from different angles， the whole Creative SiWeiLi: strong， can put forward the creative ideas for questions， others thought， he can Cultivate the habit of independent Young children encounter difficulty， always hope that parents give him the They really put some parents tell their children， and then answer the question solution， but in the long run， no benefit for child intelligence For parents， children often do parents must rely on the answer， but not yourself to find the answers， and not likely to develop the habit of independent Parents of children， facing the brillant， told the children to find a Also is a problem should inspire children， how to think， to use his analysis， how to learn the knowledge and experience， how to read， how to check reference material， When your child， he will get the answer with achievement， thinking ability raise and produce new The question remains， is thinking， the brain problems often face When children love to carry all sorts of problems with your child， parents should discuss these problems， and explain the parents of children positive Especially parents don't understand of ask others， and access to information， thought， this process is a complete answer can improve the ability of Two years later， some children don't ask questions， parents should be offered some problems are discussed， including some knotty problem Sometimes， parents should be put down to the boy ask some shelf， they don't understand the problem of development， these practices， are good children In the child's life， the study on family life， often appear all sorts of problems to Parents should guide their children and together with your child to discuss， design solutions of problems， and put into In this process， the needs analysis and induction， need to imagine， reasoning， and to solve the method and procedure To improve the ability of thinking and the ability to solve practical Four children are good at learning， the churchWith such a law: the best student learning is the most diligent， more often than not， in other words， even if your child to study hard， also can become the most outstanding student， why? Here is a good learning At present， in the primary and middle school students study fatigue is more widespread Students learn in continuous learning is tired after a physiological， psychological condition， its performance is: the brain unresponsive， pain， numbness or head distraction， stagnant， emotional upset or thinking， interested at Good at learning is to overcome the study of fatigue， improve the learning Firstly， alleviate the burden Some teachers teaching methods， according to the problems of the relevant departments requirement not leave homework， but often make "the sea of exams tactics"， "study hard" children， struggling to keep But some parents of talents， also can own ready-mix child the teacher， layer upon layer the assignments， and add some exercise， or in the weekend report a class for children and a class， "listen than not hear " Like the food， every eat too many， still a stomach to fill in， can not tired? So the family and school should cooperate closely together， "the sea of exams tactics" is not suitable for every student， according to different students， the teacher must have different Secondly， the brain science， combining A study time like shoulds not be too long， school arrangement， break Hugh in homework among Learn how long， in accordance with the appropriate every child， but must study section， the interval for 10-15 Rest also should adopt positive way， in the sports activities， such as slight a brisk walk， deep breathing， do a gymnastics， enlarge bosom movement， or listen to music and sing a song in two poem recitation， Anyhow， the brain rest and relax， more oxygen If the child cannot control themselves， alarm clock， parents can timely Thirdly， the change of rigid study methods， cultivate good habits of Some children learn by rote， only know， no serious difficulty Learning without YiDingZhiGui hectic， A study for a long time， more than mental Often， the efficiency is not high， dawdle too long， lack of sleep， the brain is not sufficient Results could Fourth， cultivating students' A branch of a few families or are not interested in learning， not listening to lectures， homework， but also must not do homework to do， crustily skin of head， both physical and mental fatigue more cause No pleasure in Fifth， strengthen cerebral Mental activity is advanced neural activity， must assure nutrition， protein， vitamins， sufficient oxygen is Even eat high protein， on the table for too long a time， shortness of breath， oxygen supply， also can make the brain
the importance of family education With the development of economy and technology， the quality of life has become better and As a result， children today are experiencing more and more At the same time， family education are particularly important AS far as we known，the problem of spoiling children has been common these It is obvious family may have great influence to a On one hand， the parents of children up is stimulative From the following four aspects:political thought，system，and On the other hand， parents also play a negative Like indulgence， domestic violence， and so on， the emergence of the education that parents caused by the This shows， good family education how important it is! In my opinion， family education is necessary to forming an excellent However， the family education should not be carried out Under proper guidance， family education can only be
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